Redefining Strengths When You're Feeling at Your Weakest
It’s been a very hard few weeks for many people financially, and I’m sorry to say that I’ve gotten emails and phone calls from at least a half-dozen association people now looking for work unexpectedly. A transition period can be a time of panic, but it also can be a good time to pause and look around.
Are you really using the skills you like to use—the ones that really jazz you--or just the ones you’re paid to perform? Are the strengths and weaknesses you stuck on your resume during the last job hunt still the same?
In career coach Marcus Buckingham’s new book, The Truth About You: Your Secret to Success (Thomas Nelson, September 2008), he uses an interactive notebook, DVD, and less than 100 pages of text to help professionals abandon all previous notions of their strengths and weaknesses. He instead redefines “strengths” as activities or traits that energize and fulfill you, that make you stronger in terms of your level of satisfaction and joy in executing them. These may not be the same capabilities at which you excel in your current workplace.
Indeed, you may be the world’s best association finance director, but if your duties are making you feel dread or drained, a la “weak,” then perhaps money management is not a “strength” after all. The perspective is worth pondering while you’re breathing in and out of that brown paper bag.
Note that Buckingham says that this book was written with the younger worker in mind, folks perhaps in their first or second job. However, it didn’t read as too Gen Y to me, except that it is much shorter than the other books and uses a multi-media approach. You’ll find other insights in two of his earlier excellent books, Now, Discover Your Strengths (2001) and First, Break All the Rules (1999).
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Interesting post. I guess there is no better time than the uncertain one to reassess what your purpose is. In the longer view, while The Truth About You is aimed at college students, which is why Marcus is touring campuses, we really need to start engaging kids in strengths discovery early on in their education. Why should they go through the majority of their schooling without articulating, building on or reflecting on their strengths? Seems like their school experiences could be more valuable with that knowledge. The definitive book on this topic is Jenifer Fox's Your Child's Strengths (Viking 2008). She lays out both why and how we can get kids strengths oriented. Buckingham wrote the forward. Great book.
Posted by: Nick Siewert | October 20, 2008 9:45 PM
Interesting post. I guess there is no better time than the uncertain one to reassess what your purpose is. In the longer view, while The Truth About You is aimed at college students, which is why Marcus is touring campuses, we really need to start engaging kids in strengths discovery early on in their education. Why should they go through the majority of their schooling without articulating, building on or reflecting on their strengths? Seems like their school experiences could be more valuable with that knowledge. The definitive book on this topic is Jenifer Fox's Your Child's Strengths (Viking 2008). She lays out both why and how we can get kids strengths oriented. Buckingham wrote the forward. Great book.
Posted by: Nick Siewert | October 20, 2008 9:46 PM